I’ve been doing the inner work for a while now. My first session with a therapist was at age 20 - the relationship with my mother is what I really wanted to work on - I wanted us to get along, be close and I wanted to understand why I felt that my relationship with her was difficult. As I continued my journey over the years, I ended up leaving a long abusive relationship at age 29, and it was only after a short relationship that followed, that I realised I had a pattern and w